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We often focus on building relationships with others that we forget the essential first step: being friends of ourselves. That is the crucial first step if we are to have good relationships with others. How can we have good relationships with others if we don't even have good relationship with ourselves?
The problem might be worse than we expect. Maybe we don't like ourselves without realizing it. Here is a simple checklist; is there anything you don't like about yourself from these list?
Your past
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4. Write your success stories
One reason we may not like ourselves is we are too focused on what we don’t have that we forget about what we have. So make a list of your achievements; write your success stories. They do not have to be big things; there are a lot of small but important achievements in our life. For example replica cartier watches, if you have some good friends replica omega watches, that’s already an achievement. If you have a good family replica tag heuer watches, that is also an achievement.
5. Stop comparing yourself with others
You are unique. You can never be like other people discount watches, and neither can other people be like you. The way you measure your success is not determined by other people and what they achieve. Instead mont blanc replica, it is determined by your own life purpose. You have everything you need to achieve your life purpose replica louis vuitton, so it's useless to compare yourself with others.
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