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And computer robbed her husband! Reading (138 146) Comments (626) Posted: at 10:34 on May 24, 2009 This article addresses: [url = javascript:;] [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] [/ url]
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a group of friends telling me that she and her husband married year, about a year at this time, she was quite lost, she was originally the tomb of love marriage is really, really terrible. She and her husband before marriage and some walk the streets, along with food stalls and other features in the restaurant for dinner, but also from time to time to see the film together, he can have a lot of sweet talk from time to time told her, but after marriage, how he seems to a changed man! In addition to not go to work every day to meet after work are not seen face with like. Meal was silent, then is he sitting in front of the computer to play on the night, when she is simply a transparent man! Times a day for two people over 10 will not speak! What kind of day? Is life after marriage is that so? She asked some of her girlfriends, their argument is more classic, and they told her, grab her husband with the computer than her husband with another woman's harder to grab!

look between the lines filled with anger and hurt of these sentences despair, I do not know where to begin to persuade her. For several times recently seeking help with exchanges in areas I do not consciously on a lot of concerns. Since it is a woman feel that this lifestyle is the problem, a woman communicate with me, so I had to look up a woman who is not also whether there are some problems, and then help them point out, to guide them in life that pay more attention to overcome their part of the responsibility? But the fact that if I did not expect it, they seem to hope that I can follow their men accused with them, do not say any of them is not, if I say so many of them did not understand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], can not be reconciled, and some even more anger, the anger of her husband assigned to me. Oh, see more will not feel surprised, and as a psychological workers of course I know that this is precisely the performance of their problem, if they do not realize there are problems then their life is bound to go on this issue . As for me, it is not necessary according to their needs have to change myself, try to accommodate a problem the problem of people communicate on the network, after all, is not the proper way to solve psychological problems. Said so much, or come back to the question above, I must first point out the problems this woman now, and if she is smart enough to understand me, then I believe she will be happy lot.

First of all, and the computer grab her husband, the 'grab' the word is a problem. When do we need to use 'grab' the word? 'Grab' mentality of the like? I understand the reason at least elements of tension and it is not enough. Use of 'grab' the human mind at least a 'war' and the psychological insecurity it. 'Grab' the word is also vividly exposed the hostess's hostile attitude towards all things right. What happens to incur she flies into a rage. This woman's performance is easy to grasp with the palm reminds me of the sand thing. More to catch, but the more grip. More to arouse her husband's attention, to seize her husband's attention, but her husband myself are to flee her to her husband later eyeful of the computer, the computer as a lover. How can not it? Concerned about the computer network are not addicted to derail, and not a shameful thing, I am afraid, angry husband filled the bar. So for this, whether those of us who lost the women reflect on their own, can not be the first to adjust their mentality, can put the shackles binding her husband relax, he could not be more calm some. Will have to shift his focus to the computer as a major event monsters to deal with it.

Second, the husband addicted to computer, there are many reasons. It was because a family has finally completed his event, after some tension to relax after the reality is in, so that this kind of life her husband is usually pretty good, is the dream has always been the comfort of their own lives. Some pressure is a new place to vent, but to comfort themselves with the network. I have talked to this case, since the loans after marriage her husband can not resolve the housing, and other economic pressures, and can not withstand a woman's chatter and discontent, so frequent mistakes at work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so the speculation by the company, so he hid at home with their own Internet to pass the time, with the Internet to set them free. Also it is because really bored, go to the cinema, go out to dinner, travel, women always complain about their wages are not high will not stretch my dollars. If so, then as a hostess is not more of the performance of the husband under the careful study it carefully to find the root cause and then drugging it. Understanding of women complain more effective than more easy to unconditionally hand over their guns is not it?

Third, any one of the family are in fact some of the parties caused by psychological problems, psychological problems then the best solution is the communication between two people. Pressure Ye Hao, sad Ye Hao, in fact, no boring Ye Hao can not two people to communicate peacefully, some say, AC? He does not listen to you talk! Why? Why does he not listen to you talk, why do not you say so worth it? I like to explore this issue. I think if the speaker with a dissatisfaction with his own condescending, with psychological attacks on others, it is bound to make people not listen to the. So how to communicate to be effective? That is, you first need to calm your own mind, with an objective attitude to communicate equally. Especially with your lover.

Finally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some women have to be told about. A woman not a girl, especially a woman in marriage is not love again look forward to your season is still all the old programs continue endlessly staged. Getting married, then under the concept of rationally to please your new program at this stage it. Development such as family planning, such as how to comfort both sides of the elderly, such as the plan should not be a baby and so on. Although sweet very sweet,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but those things are not practical things, after all, is not it?
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