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Time can change everything,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! >
one, you care about each other more
you in a relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seemed to disagree; he is not when you want him, you if he did not difference, What does this mean?
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, and that He is not your partner, but the object of your transformation.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied? If you still want to change each other, only feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling as a bet with both sides happy.
Third, you want to help each other
often feel sorry for you? Do you think you have the responsibility to help cheer up the other side? You will not be afraid to leave the other side if he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a find a sympathetic but he can help the object. to find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, wronged people, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
The key to remember here is , but you really know him.
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young actress, college students fall in love with professors, secretaries fell in love with the boss ... ..., fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because of equal treatment between the two men can not.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean position, but the attitude, not idolize each other.'ll love the worship object, usually self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you just attracted by each other
everyone looks like, right? If you find yourself being one of the other characteristics attracted to, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ..., I will tell him (her) together? appearance is the primary productive forces men
six brief opportunity to be together day and night you and your partner share a
work, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other ... .... you go on vacation for three weeks , also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling will not last long, because the short morning till evening, can not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to select the object
rebellious parents did with you always stressed the need to find a rich object, but why are you poor wretch every boyfriend ; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father imparting instruction,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, that is, do not want ... ...
If the object of your choice, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you do not really love each other, this relationship is doomed to no avail.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. choose life companion of the first premise - the other is a body A woman broke up; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence, they do not intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while; or he just break up, but may reunion ... ...,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], these are not freelance.
object types and people who are married or have contacts, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you just accept the another person with leftover parts.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you picked the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are feeling one of the eight mentioned above, go to counseling, do not waste time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there are better objects for you
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